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California child custody lawyer, California family law attorneyWe are in the middle of the busy holiday season, and newly divorced parents are learning to cope with a new lifestyle. This year, there may be new child custody and visitation arrangements between everyone, creating unique challenges during the festivities. Not only is the situation difficult for the parents, but it is also a strain on any children involved. Although fewer than 50 percent of children today grow up with a “traditional family,” the constant flood of family togetherness during holiday media can create confusion for your family. There are a few steps that can assist in making the season easier for everyone after divorce.

Start New Traditions

If the thought of going on a nighttime drive to see all the decorated houses causes anxiety and sadness because one parent is absent, perhaps consider a new venue, such as a park to see the lights or a holiday festival. Continue with the traditions that do not create a significant amount of negative emotions, but if necessary, start new ones. Other holiday traditions to consider for something brand new are:

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California child custody attorney, California mediation lawyerDuring a divorce, many topics are necessary to consider. None of them are insignificant as each detail assisted in building a life together. However, one of the larger situations that require careful consideration is the child custody and visitation arrangements. The decisions made affect not only the adults in the situation but also the children and will continue to influence everyone involved for the years to come. The best solution is chosen during divorce mediation, or a judge can lay out a plan of action through divorce litigation.

Understanding Custody

There is more to determining custody than just with whom the child will live. Two forms of care need establishing, both physical and legal custody. Each of these types of care has various options within them. Understanding the options makes the decision-making process easier, so let us explain.

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California divorce attorney, California mediation attorneyDivorce does not only affect the married couple that is splitting; it systematically changes the dynamic of everyone with any relationship with them. From the family members that must adjust to how to maintain communication without stepping on toes to the friends that must now divide their friendship between the two separate entities, the entire situation must be treated delicately. Arguably the most significant relationship to consider is that of the children. Some kids are better equipped to handle the struggle, however, at any age, divorcing parents can be life-altering. Mediation lessens the negative results encountered with divorce.

Effects on Divorce and Children

Countless studies have investigated the effects that divorce has on children. Although it is impossible not to have any lasting mark, the goal is to minimize the negative repercussions. Their little lives rest entirely in your hands, including their emotional and psychological well-being. Studies found the following effects:

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California divorce judge, California divorce attorneyIf you choose to proceed with court litigation in your divorce matter, the judge assigned to your case will make the decisions pertaining to your divorce matter. While it is true that judges do not have the sentimental connection to the items in question, there is still a responsibility to make the wisest decision possible given the information at hand. Let us discuss what some of the elements are that are used in a divorce decision-making process.

Child Custody and Visitation

First and foremost, a judge will determine what is in the best interest of the child. The default solution for “best interest” is often joint legal custody, meaning that both parents must still make the legal decisions together. It is most commonly in the best interest to have involvement from both parents, so they will also generally lean towards joint physical custody. Some of the reasons that a judge may choose to do sole custody are:

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California divorce attorney, California family law attorneyDivorce can be extremely stressful. It can feel like the world has been removed from your shoulders once the divorce has been settled and a judgment has been filed. Everything is set, from the child support, to the alimony, and the visitation. Nevertheless, circumstances change with the passage of time.  Some of the orders you obtained in your judgment may no longer be appropriate to your family situation.  You may wish to proceed with post-judgment modifications to address these concerns.

What Can Be Altered

Although generally property division cannot be revisited post-judgment (except on statutorily-enumerated grounds), some of the orders contained in the judgment can be modified:

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