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Posted on in Family Law

California divorce attorney, California mediation lawyerA rising number of couples are turning to in vitro fertilization for child conception. Many use this methodology to conceive after years of difficulty. Recent scientific studies show that IVF significantly increases the likelihood of conception. Meanwhile, other future parents choose this alternative as a way to preserve their ability for when they are more financially stable and able to care for their beloved child. However, a lot can happen between the egg retrieval and the time at which the eggs are utilized. Sometimes, couples need to go their separate ways through divorce litigation or mediation. Do these frozen embryos qualify for custody arrangements or property division?

Why Is This an Issue?

There currently is no legislation in California regarding the usage of embryos after a divorce. The downfall to this is that each court then must decide the outcome based simply on the facts of the case, without taking into consideration the emotional or physical needs of either individual. As an embryo is a fertilized egg, meaning it has DNA donated from each biological parent, and many fertility clinics require a contract from both sides before completion of the procedure. There is often a clause in this contract indicating what to do with the embryos in the event of a divorce. Unfortunately, we are not all born with the capabilities of seeing into the future, and at the point of signing, these two individuals are often so full of every other emotion, divorce is not the forefront option. Within many of these contracts, couples readily agree to destroy the embryos should a divorce occur.

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Posted on in Mediation

California mediation attorney, California divorce lawyerWhen a couple determines divorce is necessary, often the idea of a long and drawn-out divorce litigation trial immediately comes to mind. Although a significant portion of the population turns to this divorce option quickly, most of the time this is because they are unaware of the other options available. In California, it seems everyone is looking to find a way to make divorce not only more affordable but also less traumatic. One such option is known as divorce mediation.

Alternative Methods to Divorce

There are multiple methods available for divorce options; each is a bit different from the last, but all have the same outcome: divorce. With these options, it is likely you will find an option that best suits your end goals. These methods are:

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California divorce attorney, California family law attorneyMarriage is as much a legal contract as it is a romantic union. Together, you make a sacred vow that is intended to last a lifetime. In many marriages, sexual exclusivity is a significant portion of that agreement. One partner choosing to stray beyond the boundaries of the union jeopardizes the deal. In other legal controversies, a breach of contract may result in restitution. In the realm of divorce and family law, does infidelity mean that the victim in the situation is owed damages through the form of spousal support?

Even Ground

California understands that not everyone will agree on everything, which is why lawmakers made divorce possible even if one side refuses to let go of the marriage. The state is also a “no-fault” state, which means that you do not need to have a reason other than irreconcilable differences with your spouse to leave. Based on this arrangement, everyone is equal regardless of any perceived transgressions, including cheating. Therefore, if taken to court for alimony payments, the judge will not take behavior into consideration. Factors that do influence the awarded permanent spousal support are:

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California child custody lawyer, California family law attorneyWe are in the middle of the busy holiday season, and newly divorced parents are learning to cope with a new lifestyle. This year, there may be new child custody and visitation arrangements between everyone, creating unique challenges during the festivities. Not only is the situation difficult for the parents, but it is also a strain on any children involved. Although fewer than 50 percent of children today grow up with a “traditional family,” the constant flood of family togetherness during holiday media can create confusion for your family. There are a few steps that can assist in making the season easier for everyone after divorce.

Start New Traditions

If the thought of going on a nighttime drive to see all the decorated houses causes anxiety and sadness because one parent is absent, perhaps consider a new venue, such as a park to see the lights or a holiday festival. Continue with the traditions that do not create a significant amount of negative emotions, but if necessary, start new ones. Other holiday traditions to consider for something brand new are:

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California divorce lawyer, California mediation attorneyThe dissolution of a marriage is a stressful process for a family. While mediation is supposed to ease some of the difficulties associated with divorce litigation in court, sometimes getting both spouses to agree to mediation can present its own issues.

Deciding to use mediation is one of the first of many decisions you and your estranged spouse will have to make, so it is no wonder that it presents a stumbling block for many couples. If you believe that mediation is a good fit, but your spouse is not as sure, there are several things you can do.

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