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3 Mistakes to Avoid During a Child Custody Case in California

Posted on in Child Custody and Visitation

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When parents choose to get divorced, or when unmarried couples do not live together, disputes over the custody of children can become highly contentious. During these types of cases, parents will want to understand how they can address their children’s needs and avoid acting in a way that will cause their children to experience emotional harm. They will also want to be sure to understand the best steps to take to resolve child custody issues in a way that protects their parental rights while providing for their children’s best interests. During these types of cases, you will want to be sure to avoid the following mistakes:

  1. Acting in a Hostile Manner: The strong emotions involved in child custody cases can lead parents to behave in a way that could negatively impact their case. Be sure to refrain from speaking negatively about the other parent in front of your children, on social media platforms, or in court. It is best to remain as calm as possible and try to avoid arguments with the other parent whenever possible. Instead, conduct negotiations through your attorney or during mediation, limiting the possibility of angry outbursts or heated discussions. 
  2. Violating the Court’s Orders: During the divorce process or while a child custody case is pending, the court may issue temporary orders regarding matters such as visitation schedules or child support. Failure to follow these orders could result in the court deciding against you in your case. During this time, be sure to pick up and drop off your children on time, and do not attempt to take the children when it is not your time to have them. It is also important to make child support payments on time and in the full amount according to the order. 
  3. Not Focusing on Your Children: Even though you will likely be putting a great deal of time and energy toward legal matters, it is important to be sure you are taking time for your children as well. When making decisions about child custody, the court may evaluate your parenting skills, and you will want to demonstrate that you are closely involved in your children’s lives. Be sure to have a firm understanding of your child’s academic performance and extracurricular interests, and make sure you can provide your child with a safe, stable, and comfortable home life. If the court feels that you are not fully engaged as a parent, or if you are unable to provide your child with a safe home, this could have a negative effect on decisions about child custody. 

Contact a Los Gatos, CA Child Custody Lawyer

With years of experience helping clients throughout the entirety of the divorce process, Attorney Benita Ventresca will do everything in her power to help you reach a positive outcome to your child custody case. To schedule a complimentary consultation with an experienced Los Gatos, CA family law attorney, call us today at 408-395-8822. We serve clients in the Los Gatos, Sunnyvale, Saratoga, Cupertino, and San Jose areas.

 

Source: 

https://www.courts.ca.gov/17975.htm?rdeLocaleAttr=en

 

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